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A moving memoir from the actor and producer. Conventional wisdom says we cannot choose family or fate. In this tribute to his famous family, Dunne (b. 1955) reminds readers to love family and do the best with what fate sends along. Bookended by the shocking murder of his sister, Dominique, and the birth of his daughter, Hannah, the narrative retraces the author’s history, offering colorful snippets of life in an intriguing, privileged milieu. In Dunne’s fascinating world, his father, writer and investigative journalist Dominick Dunne, swaps acrimonious barbs with literati brother and sister-in-law, John Gregory Dunne and Joan Didion (“Joan was a ‘serious writer,’ Dad ex-plained to his children, ‘not like the hacks’ he’d hired to write at Four Star [Television]”). Carrie Fisher is a confidante—“best friends become best friends suddenly, and without knowing that’s what’s happening until it happens”—and celebrities drop in for parties and dinners. Despite the glamorous backdrops in California and New York, the author portrays a family whose core human experiences make them universally relatable. Dunne is candid about his father’s demons and substance abuse, which stoked the embers of a tumultuous marriage. He compassionately chronicles his mother’s battle with multiple sclerosis, and he gently examines the sibling dynamics between the three Dunne children (one of whom is mentally ill, and to whom he dedicates the book). Dunne also chronicles his own slow climb toward fame, an ascent he has navigated on his own terms. The tragedy of Dominique’s murder looms throughout, and the author capably describes stepping into two of the most challenging roles of his life to date: filming Johnny Dangerously while simultaneously supporting his family in their quest for justice for Dominique. A poignant love letter and evidence that through it all, genuine love is the backbone that keeps a family strong. Copyright © Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.